About Me
I’m Alyson Richelle — founder of What They Don’t Tell You™. With 15 years as a Senior Sergeant of Police and my own lived experience as a survivor, I’ve seen both the system’s failures and its potential for change.
My mission is to equip survivors, parents, and professionals with tools, truth, and trauma-informed support so no one has to face abuse or system failure alone.
Our Mission
What They Don’t Tell You™ exists to:
Shine light on the hidden signs of abuse.
Break down barriers in systems like police, courts, and services.
Provide practical tools that survivors and families can actually use.
Create a safe space where your voice matters.
My Story
This began with my own story — as both a police officer responding to abuse and a survivor trying to navigate broken systems.
I realised survivors weren’t failing; the systems were failing them.
So I built What They Don’t Tell You™ to bridge that gap — blending professional insight, lived experience, and real-world tools to help others rebuild their lives with confidence.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I'm not sure I'm in an abusive situation?
You don't have to label it to ask for help. If something else feels wrong, we'll explore safe options together - no pressure, no judgement.
Can I get help if I live outside Australia?
Yes. While my legal knowledge is Australia-based, the tools, strategies, and frameworks I use are relevant worldwide. Many sessions are delivered online.
How do you keep my information safe?
Your privacy matters. You can use a code word, safe email, or anonymous name. I don't share your details, and your decide how and when I contact you.
Is this only for women?
No. Abuse can affect anyone. I work with people or all genders, ages, backgrounds, and roles - survivors, parents, professionals, and allies.
What if I can't afford paid programs?
You'll find free resources, guides, and community support here. If you need more, we can discuss flexible options to make sure you still get help.
What happens after I download a free guide?
You'll get the guide instantly. You'll also receive optional follow-up emails with extra tools and support - if you choose.
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