Our Services
Helping, survivors, families, and professionals navigate abuse, coercive control, and systemic challenges with clarity and support.
How I Can Support You
From first steps to long-term rebuilding, here's how What They Don't Tell You can help.
At What They Don't Tell You, I provide trauma-informed support that bridges the gap between lived experience and professional expertise. From expert witness services and court preparation to mentoring, education, and system navigation, my focus is simple: helping you be seen, heard, and safe while navigating complex legal, social and personal challenges.
Learn the Signs
Spot hidden abuse and coercive control.
Free guides, checklist, and education to help you recognise red flags in relationships, workplaces, schools, and systems
Plan Your Exit
Leave safely and protect yourself legally
Step-by-step support with safety planning, protection orders, police statements, and court prep so you can feel informed and ready
Support Your Children
Keep your kids safe, supported and heard
Guidance on child safety, parenting plans, emotional wellbeing, and navigating family court or child protection systems
Rebuild Your Future
Life after abuse - without fear of shame
Tools for nervous system healing, confidence rebuilding, and reclaiming your identity and independence
Expert Services
Gain professional support tailored to your needs. From expert witness reports and behavioural assessments to trauma-informed case preparation, I provide clear guidance and credible insights to strengthen your voice in legal, family and community matters.
Podcast & Media
Tune into real conversations that break silence and spark change. Through interviews, media features, and Ask Alyson Anything Podcast, I share lived experience, expert knowledge, and stories that shift how we understand abuse, healing, and systemic reform.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I'm not sure I'm in an abusive situation?
You don't have to label it to ask for help. If something else feels wrong, we'll explore safe options together - no pressure, no judgement.
Can I get help if I live outside Australia?
Yes. While my legal knowledge is Australia-based, the tools, strategies, and frameworks I use are relevant worldwide. Many sessions are delivered online.
How do you keep my information safe?
Your privacy matters. You can use a code word, safe email, or anonymous name. I don't share your details, and your decide how and when I contact you.
Is this only for women?
No. Abuse can affect anyone. I work with people or all genders, ages, backgrounds, and roles - survivors, parents, professionals, and allies.
What if I can't afford paid programs?
You'll find free resources, guides, and community support here. If you need more, we can discuss flexible options to make sure you still get help.
What happens after I download a free guide?
You'll get the guide instantly. You'll also receive optional follow-up emails with extra tools and support - if you choose.
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